I’ve been on both sides of this. I’m one of the most respectful people you can meet and I try my best not to ding doors and I actively choose not to
near someone if I can tell they are trying to stay away from other cars.
For example, you pull into the lot and see a nice ride by itself and you can tell the lot has most likely filled up since they got there and cars are getting close. I will choose to park a few spaces away even if it means a little more walking for me. I will also, in the same scenario, depending on how full the lot is getting, will choose to park next to that car because I KNOW I won’t ding. I figure I’m doing them a favor by filling the spot with someone who gives a rip ya know?
However, I have also been the guy that pulls riiiiiiiight up to the driver door to the point the mirrors almost touch on my passenger side. This happened one time and I feel I had every right because the person was a complete d-bag. Here is why I feel I was justified. I’m rushing to the ER because my father in law had a heart attack so I was hauling butt to get there, I pull in the PACKED parking garage and I see a ‘Vette that has taken 2 friggin spots RIGHT NEXT to the stairs with his passenger door facing a wall. Just because I was in a hurry, freaking out, and it’s an ER parking garage (where people have emergencies) and not a Walmart parking lot I decided to take my beater (I was driving my beater car) that I didn’t care about and park it right next to him. So close that the only way he could get in was to crawl through the passenger side. My passenger mirror and his driver mirror were less than 1/8” apart. I still don’t know how he backed out without hitting me....but hey, I would t have cared if he did.
near someone if I can tell they are trying to stay away from other cars.
For example, you pull into the lot and see a nice ride by itself and you can tell the lot has most likely filled up since they got there and cars are getting close. I will choose to park a few spaces away even if it means a little more walking for me. I will also, in the same scenario, depending on how full the lot is getting, will choose to park next to that car because I KNOW I won’t ding. I figure I’m doing them a favor by filling the spot with someone who gives a rip ya know?
However, I have also been the guy that pulls riiiiiiiight up to the driver door to the point the mirrors almost touch on my passenger side. This happened one time and I feel I had every right because the person was a complete d-bag. Here is why I feel I was justified. I’m rushing to the ER because my father in law had a heart attack so I was hauling butt to get there, I pull in the PACKED parking garage and I see a ‘Vette that has taken 2 friggin spots RIGHT NEXT to the stairs with his passenger door facing a wall. Just because I was in a hurry, freaking out, and it’s an ER parking garage (where people have emergencies) and not a Walmart parking lot I decided to take my beater (I was driving my beater car) that I didn’t care about and park it right next to him. So close that the only way he could get in was to crawl through the passenger side. My passenger mirror and his driver mirror were less than 1/8” apart. I still don’t know how he backed out without hitting me....but hey, I would t have cared if he did.